Taking a Stand and Standing Firm

I just want to briefly say that in life things happen.  We can't control them, nor alter their appearance.  But there are some things we can control, and it's ok to stand up for yourself. 

Sometimes I find that I take a step back and just let things happen around me and keep my mouth shut to spare others feelings, then other things I take hold of and won't let go.  I can't seem to find that happy medium of knowing what to hold on to and what to let go. 

I have never been afraid to voice my opinion before, but sometimes I keep it in because I think it's a waste of breath.

Today, I will say what is on my mind, because that is my right.  It is especially important to voice my concerns when it can be the difference between helping save a life, or letting it slip away.

I am tired of standing idly by while I watch someone I love hurt themselves and watch others enable. They may not know what is really happening so it's my obligation to make it known.  So today I will let those in my life know what is hurting me, what is hurting my family and why.  It's ok, because that's what's best for me and mine.  I will not suppress my best interests to conserve the feelings of another.  I have to do what's right for me and my family.  I don't want to cause anguish to anyone else, so I will do it in as cordial of a manner as I can and still get out what needs to be said.  Sorry if anyone is offended...it is what it is.